February can feel like the year’s emotional basement—dark, cold, and heavy with expectations we were never meant to carry this time of year. This piece reframes winter not as a personal failure, but as a high-friction season that calls for smarter pacing, gentler progress, and a little science-backed self-compassion.
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Aligning Personal Values with Professional Priorities
Alignment isn’t about perfection—it’s about awareness. This piece explores how values drift, pressure, and performance personas shape our decisions at work, and how leaders can more thoughtfully align personal values with real-world priorities.
Not a Wellness Routine: A Quick Round-Up of Nervous System Resets
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Why the Best Ideas Happen When You Turn Your Brain Off: The Science of Incubation
Learn how incubation can transform your thinking process and lead to innovative ideas during mundane moments.
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When I am very, very stressed, overwhelmed, or tired, I get clumsy. Not tripping over my own feet, clumsy, more like...
Strategic Planning for Uncertain Futures
Planning in 2025 has felt like packing for a trip where the destination keeps changing and you have absolutely no idea...
De-escalation, Distillation, and Discernment: Three Underrated Leadership Skills For a Chaotic World
In an increasingly chaotic and heightened world, it is shockingly easy for leadership tactics to get swept up in the...
Perfectionism Is a Thief, and It’s Getting Worse
Perfectionism isn’t some quirky personality trait. It’s a thief. It sneaks in, steals your time, drains your joy, and...
🧪 From Learning to Application Part II: Treat Yourself Like a Science Experiment
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From Good Intentions to Actual Progress: Lessons from the Gym, for Leaders
Okay. No one is looking. In the safety of your own mind, raise your hand if you: 👋 Have more than one...
Leading & Living in the Chaos Era
After two decades helping people and organizations navigate growth, transition, and disruption, I can say this with...











